By Karen Rempel
Many girls dream of their wedding day. Not me! I dreamed of twirling in glamorous gowns and going to glittering galas with arm candy men. Every day after school I swooned at the thought of being Ginger, alone with Gilligan on his island. I was born just before the Summer of Love, and my heart thirsts for freedom, excitement, and finding out what’s around the next bend in the Alaskan Highway. This passion for discovery has whirled me on a football field full of merry-go-round romantic adventures.
In contrast, WestView News Publisher George Capsis was born in 1927, the year of the first talkie (The Jazz Singer) and of Charles Lindbergh’s historic flight across the Atlantic. His mom sent him to school with a quarter for lunch money, and he went to White Tower every day and got two burgers and a hot chocolate for fifteen cents. He had a few adventures himself, but settled down pretty young and was married for over five decades. Every time I tell George I have exciting news, he says, “You’re getting married?” He thinks this is the most exciting thing that can happen to a woman, and that I am a strange exotic creature because I don’t want to be tied to one person for life—not even for a decade! So he asked me to write a column about my romantic life (aka dating disasters), to help him understand why I prefer to remain single.
In my Karen’s Quirky Style column last month, I mentioned meeting a handsome architect after attending a gala in Joe Biden’s honor. So let’s start with Keith! I’ll call him this because he looked like a sexy amalgamation of Keith Richards and Mick Jagger, with shoulder-length wavy brown hair, tinged with salt, and a British accent that really ignited my spark plugs. A woman I met at the Biden gala invited me to a Wine and Design event near Rockefeller Center. I had the Ziggy Stardust haircut that you may recall from my early “Karen’s Quirky Style” columns, with carrots on top and teal at the back. I was wearing jeans, high black boots, and a multi-colored bolero jacket, sampling a pinot noir, when Keith strolled over, and said, “You look like an interesting person to know.” I thought, “You look pretty interesting too,” in his black jeans, gray shirt, black leather jacket, and that hair! We chatted a bit, and the sparks were shooting in all directions. Emboldened by the wine I had sampled at half a dozen display rooms, I said “Should we go for a drink?” “Yes, darling!” “How about Bar SixtyFive?” I was reaching for the stars—the next incarnation of the Rainbow Room—the epitome of New York romance.
As we tried to find the elevator up to Bar SixtyFive, we seemed to go through one revolving door after another at Rockefeller Center—whirling and twirling! As I went through the sixth whirligig, I said, “Rockefeller Center is nothing but revolving doors!” I was disconcerted that he didn’t come out the other side laughing. But I shrugged it off. We finally found the elevator and learned that Bar SixtyFive was closed for a private event. “How about Otto at One Fifth?” Keith suggested. “Sure, I live near there.” He hailed a cab, and soon we were seated side by side in the dimly lit bar, sparkling wine glasses in hand again, drenched in the magic of New York. (To be continued next month.)
I am hooked! You mean I have to wait a whole month for the next episode!
You really have set the scene !!
Well written, full of descriptive images and a great start to what I am assuming a hot romance!!
Well done 👍
Thanks, Angela! I’m glad you like it. I can’t wait to tell you what happens next!! 🙂 It’s scorching! Oww!!
O the intrigue! Can’t wait to hear how this unfolds!
OMG a cliff hanger! I am obsessed now and feel like I am right there with you two! Nothing is better than the New York state of mind and romance to boot! I can’t wait for next month. Very well done!
I love it that women are writing–and living out–their own stories now. I sense a quirky adventure coming…can’t wait for part 2 of “Catch and Release.”
You used up your allotment of pixels? Why can’t you finish the story? Is this some cynical marketing plan?
I’d like to know where things went after this sentence: “But I shrugged it off.” WRITE THE REST already.
Jerome, you’re so funny!! Yup–only 20 pixels per month. haha
Nice to hear your perspective as a fellow singleton! Looking forward to next month.
Are you a fellow catch and releaser? 😉
I can’t wait to see Tim’s next comment. Are these BC salmon stories?
Since this question is coming from an Alaskan King salmon, I have to say–the biggest fish get away! They know no borders!
What fun! I can’t wait to read the next episode!
What’s going to happen? I can’t wait to see. I really liked, “How about Otto at One Fifth?” “Sure, I live near there.” Wink, wink, nudge, nudge. Say no more.
LOL – George, are you reading my mind right now?
Hmmmm… dating disasters!? With you, there is always a silver lining.
I feel privileged to have heard some very early Quirky Karen stories back when we worked together in Vancouver — like the time you placed an ad and got a date for your new Ferragamos! Looking forward to the next installment.
What a memory! A Lamborghini promised to take out my Ferragamos, but what turned up was a Lexus! Still, my shoes enjoyed dinner in the fanciest French restaurant in town.
Looking forward to the next installment!
Drew me right in… and left me hanging! Look forward to picking up from where you left us dangling.
This is fabulous! I can’t wait to read how it turns out!
Single life… sigh. My new motto, taken or single, … “There must be EASE.”
Like the best dates a hint, a glimpse and left wanting to know more. Looking forward to the next instalment…
Karen
I have known you my whole life and you never ever disappoint!
You are brilliant with your words!
I concur with so many of the previous comments. Starting this off as a cliffhanger is deliciously cruel (I’m as hooked as any of your dates) but “Where the Ferragamos go” deserves its own Netflix series! Looking forward to the next installment.
I enjoyed the unfolding of your adventure story.
What fun!
Your Quirky life would make a great TV series. Can’t wait to see what happens!
This story makes me want to come to New York just to go on an adventure with you!
How fun. Can’t wait for the next installment!!!
Awww come on. I want more.
That’s all? I’m laughing at how curious I am to see where this goes 🙂
I can see your column needing more space in the paper… It’s far too delicious to get such a tiny tease only once a month!
Oh Karen, that’s cruel. I really wanted to find out how “he didn’t come out the other side laughing” would turn out to be revealing about this “handsome architect,” but you left us in the bar at “Otto”! Can hardly wait to read the unfolding of this particular “catch and release.”
Will readers learn why Keith didn’t come out the other side laughing? Was his hair softer that his leather jacket? Oh, do tell…
Great questions, Urbanned! All will be revealed!
Well done Karen! Definitely hooked! But to wait a whole month … yikes.
Great descriptions, Karen! Your handsome architect sounds like a dream, but I too am curious why he didn’t come out of the revolving door laughing.
Ha! You strange exotic creature! I love how you managed to craft a cliffhanger in four paragraphs. Looking forward to the next installment!
Cliff hanger? No I want know what happens. Your life would make a wonderful memoir I bet!! Look forward to reading how it ends.
Takes me right back… to the good old days. Brilliant. I call marriage “the big secret,” right up there with Santa and the Easter Bunny. You’re right… be envied. Love you!
Bonney, I admire how you really say it like it is. Love you!
What next month!? Lol count me in! 🙂 xox
Well now, you’ve whet my appetite for more! You certainly have the right bait for a catch. I’ve always had a not so secret desire to get caught!
So that’s why you made all those house calls to help me with my antique furniture! 😉
You’ve drawn me in with your vivid writing. Can’t wait for the next installment.
Karen….I love that you’re open enough to tell it all — an open book. I’ll be awaiting all the details — some sordid ones, I expect!…Love, Ralph
I’m ready for more!
Well done. Carry on!!
OMG, you’re leaving us hanging at that?!! I love it! ❤️🍸
Thank you, darling! It’s the best moment of a love affair. When it hasn’t quite begun yet, but you want it to, and anything is possible. And thanks to everyone for your comments. You’ll be keeping me real! 💖
Very intriguing, Karen. Looking forward to reading more about your romantic adventures!
Karen, congrats on this series! Have as much fun as possible dating—cuz you never know when your last ‘release’ might be. xoxo Monica
Hilarious! You’re so right! XX
Karen, It’s great to see that you’re really enjoying New York so much and having great city adventures! You knew from the beginning that it was the place for you!
Thanks, Mike! I do love this city! It was love at first sight! 🙂
Once again your personal truth is contagious. Enjoy the moment as we all are reading your words. Don’t ever stop ‘hooking’ us as voyeurs.
Thanks for reading, Carole! It is a very joyful experience, to share and interact with you all.
Keith sounds like trouble. Black jeans and leather jacket are a big red flag imo. But seriously I love your writing, can’t wait for the next installment
Thanks, Costa! You make me laugh!
☆꧁:..::♥✸♥::.:.꧂☆sOooO much FuN!!!!☆꧁:..::♥✸♥::.:.꧂☆ & suspense!!!!
I’m intrigued and can’t wait to learn what happened next!
Love your writing! Have no doubt this will be a huge success! Xx
Way to go Karen
keep having fun and bringing joy to our lives
Adrianne
What happens NEXT?! This story is moving right along, I’m ready for the next installment.
Please make them a weekly thing :)))
Wonderful to have this next instalment!
Please keep up the series…..love the quirky Karen style!!
So refreshing to be reading instead of listening to videos!!
5 stars ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Exciting story! Love the article. Same life philosophy of mine! I just want to date forever!
Dear Gillian, A woman of like mind! Glad to know this!! Thanks for writing. 🙂